The Non-Judgemental Accessibility Checklist for Venues
How to assess a venue for accessibility without shaming the venue, yourself, or your guests. (A PDF checklist is available for download.)
How to Use This Checklist
This isn't about finding the "perfect" venue. Virtually no venue is fully accessible—that's infrastructure, not judgment. This checklist helps you understand what barriers exist and how to work around them or require improvements.
Key mindset: You're not judging the venue. You're assessing reality so you can plan thoughtfully.
The Guest Journey: Where to Start
Rather than room-by-room assessment, imagine a guest arriving for the first time. What do they experience?
Start here:
- Guest arrives in the carpark
- Guest walks from car to entrance
- Guest enters the building
- Guest navigates to ceremony space
- Guest finds their seat
- Guest navigates to bathrooms
- Guest moves to reception space
- Guest finds the reception bathroom
- Guest leaves at end of day
Walk this journey yourself. Take notes. This reveals everything.
The Checklist: Mobility & Physical Access
Sensory & Acoustic Accessibility
Bathroom Facilities in Detail
Bathrooms are often the differentiator between "we tried" and "actually accessible."
Streaming & Technology Readiness
If you're planning to livestream, assess the venue's technical capabilities:
Dignity Check: The Service Entrance Question
Here's a key question many venues won't anticipate:
"Is your accessible entrance the same as the main entrance? Or is accessible access through the service entrance/back area?"
If the answer is "accessible access is through the back," that's a dignity issue. Your grandfather in a wheelchair shouldn't enter through the same door as deliveries and staff.
If this is the case, you can:
- Request that guests with mobility needs use the main entrance (sometimes venues just never thought to adjust)
- Arrange a staff member to greet wheelchair users at the accessible entrance with a warm "let me show you to the main foyer"
- Reconsider the venue if it's truly a back-door-only situation and signals disrespect
Questions to Ask the Venue
Questions About Physical Access
- How far is accessible parking from the main entrance?
- Are all guest areas (ceremony, reception) on the same level, or are there steps between them?
- How many accessible toilet facilities do you have? Where are they located?
- What's your most accessible entrance? Is it the same as the main entrance?
- Can you provide a site plan showing accessible routes?
Questions About Sensory/Accessibility Features
- What's the acoustics like in your spaces? Can you provide a sound level reading?
- Do you have a sound system? Is it included in the venue cost or rental?
- Can lighting be dimmed or adjusted?
- Do you have a quiet space available if guests need a break?
- What's your policy on guests bringing service animals, mobility devices, or medical equipment?
Questions About Streaming (If Relevant)
- What's your WiFi upload speed? (Ask them to test it, or test yourself)
- Can you provide mobile hotspot backup if internet drops?
- Is there adequate power supply for camera/streaming equipment?
- Is there space for a camera tripod/crew in ceremony and reception areas?
- What's your policy on professional livestreaming vendors bringing equipment?
Questions About Flexibility & Inclusivity
- How much notice do you need for specific access arrangements?
- Are there any restrictions on service animals, mobility devices, or medical equipment?
- How do you handle last-minute access requests on the day?
- Can you accommodate dietary restrictions? (Not just vegetarian, but allergies, texture needs, etc.)
Red Flags & How to Handle Them
Red Flag: "We don't really have guests with accessibility needs"
Translation: We haven't thought about this. You're asking a good question that exposes our lack of planning.
How to handle: It's not about their guests—it's about potential guests. "I have family members with various access needs, so I want to make sure your venue works for everyone."
Red Flag: "We can make accommodations for special cases"
Translation: Accessibility isn't built in; we'll scramble day-of if needed.
How to handle: Ask for specifics. "What does 'accommodations' look like? Who arranges it? When would you need notice?" Vague promises often become last-minute scrambles.
Red Flag: "The accessible toilet is in the back/downstairs"
Translation: Accessibility was an afterthought.
How to handle: Escalate. "Can we arrange for accessible guests to use a main-level bathroom instead?" If the venue is inflexible, consider elsewhere.
Red Flag: "WiFi is unreliable; you might not be able to livestream"
Translation: Their internet infrastructure is poor.
How to handle: Budget for mobile hotspot backup, or hire a professional livestreaming vendor with their own internet. Don't rely on a venue's unreliable WiFi.
How to Document Your Assessment
After your venue visit, write notes immediately:
- Photo/video record of paths, entrances, bathrooms (for your own records)
- Specific measurements (doorway widths, distances, etc.)
- Sound level at different spots (use your phone's decibel app)
- Internet speed test results
- Questions you asked and venue's responses
- Red flags or concerns
This documentation helps you remember details weeks later and spot which venues truly prioritize access.
The Reality: No Venue Is Perfect
Some venues are heritage listed. Some are old barns. Some are beautiful spaces in buildings that predate accessibility standards.
That's okay. Your job isn't to find perfect—it's to find honest, and then work with what you have.
Honest venues: "Our space has some limitations. Here's what we can do. Here's what we can't. What matters to your guests?"
Dishonest venues: "Everything's accessible!" (Then you arrive and discover it's not.)
Choose honest venues, even if they require workarounds. Dishonest venues will disappoint you on the day.
Download the Checklist (PDF)
A printable version of this checklist is available as a PDF for your venue visits. You can take it with you, mark items as you assess, and keep notes on each venue for comparison.
(Note: PDF checklist available upon request through the Accessible Weddings contact form. For now, you can print this page or use the checklist items above.)
Related Resources
- Elderly Guests Pillar — Specific mobility and comfort considerations
- Digital Participation Pillar — Streaming readiness assessment
- Invitation Wording — How to ask guests about their access needs